Friday, February 7, 2014

KimXi and the Week That Was :)


Ang daming ganap, ano?? And if you, dear KimXi fan, have your sanity still intact after a week-long "battle" with the issues (both may kuwenta and walang kuwenta) on social  media, then congratulations! Ang tibay mo.. you are already a full-fledged fangirl. :)) 

With fangirling, you take the good with the bad... and you keep an open mind all the time. Open mind syempre 'cos you need to understand where the jeje haters and moronic fans are coming from. You have to understand where these assholes are coming from so that you can politely tell them, "Thank you, I understand your sentiments. Now, fuck off." 

So, how do we make sense of all the ganaps these past few days?? Let's see..


1) The exaggeratedly blown-out of proportion gag show 'unfortunate' incident

No doubt about it.. this thing was exaggeratedly blown-out of proportion. And what do you expect? Of course, the anti-Xian earthlings out there are having the time of their lives... ride on kung ride on sila sa issue..now is the perfect time than any to bash Xian. 

And oh, who are these anti-Xian earthlings?? One good example: those claiming to be "Solid Kim Chiu fan ako..99.9%, 100%, 101% & I support all her projects, kahit sino pa i-partner sa kanya BUT sa Twitter and Instagram (since 2012 pa) halos araw-araw bina-bash, hini-hate, ini-insulto, tinatawag na kung ano2x ang ka-loveteam nya na si Xian Lim". *stones stones* Sadly yes, there are some Kim Chiu fans out there na sobrang natuwa sa gag show incident and who are bashing Xian like crazy these days. Huwag mag-deny ang iba dyan.  Alalahanin, hindi nagsisinungaling ang 'ibidensiya'. :))) Ang sarap mag-post ng screen caps, naku... 

So, how to deal with them?? Nothing. Ka-CHEAPAN ang mga fans na ito, sa totoo lang. Since Day 01, they do not like Xian for Kim. Kahit maging santo pa si Xian, they won't have a good thing to say about him. They would forever label Xian as "bakla", "user", "bastos". KimXi fans should be numb by now when they read or hear things like these hurled against Xian. 

And those people out there na nakiki-opinion lang dun sa gag show incident, they remain to be just that.. "nakiki-opinion lang". 
Do they know who Xian really is as a person? NO. 
Do they know Xian in the same manner as how Kim knows him? NO. 
Do they matter? NO. 

Now, time to ask yourself. "Should I still stress myself over this gag show issue?" 

NO. 


2) #IkawLamangKim #XianAtKimLamang #XianLamang #KimLamang #NakakalokaLamang

#AkoLamangAngNakakaalamSaTunayKongNararamdamanAtAkoLamangAngPuedeMagDecideKungAnoAngGustoKongPanoorin  

Ganyan lang 'yan. One can only do so much. You can hope, wish, pray, campaign (peacefully) for the rest of the KimXi fandom to support whatever individual projects Kim and Xian have, BUT you can NEVER coerce/pressure people to decide on something which is to your liking. It's the same as, you cannot force the anti-Xian earthlings to like Xian for Kim. Hating Xian is 'a way of life' for them; so let them rot in hell nalang. 

With the solo projects of Kim and Xian, you and only you have the final say on what form of support you're gonna give as a fan. Follow where your heart leads you. Naks! :)) 

And this thing about questioning the "loyalty" of fans?? Get a life! :)) There are far more important things in life (if you have a 'life') than keeping track of "who among the fans are fuckin' loyal and who are not".

Loyalty-wise, what is more important is that "loyal si Kim and Xian sa isa't-isa". Yun lang. ;) 


3) Dealing with a "bruised" and "overly stressed" fangirl heart

Take time out to smell the flowers...hahaha. :) Take a breather, away from the noise of social media fangirling.  And dear, it's not the end of the world. Besides, your ship is sailing steadily for real. :) 

Highs and lows in fangirling are really inevitable. But, fangirling is not the all and be all of your life. And you are far more wiser than the jeje haters and moronic fans out there. ;) 

Remember, "to everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under the sun." :)