Thursday, June 13, 2013

Usapang “What is the Real Score between Kim and Xian?” ;-)

A friend asked me to write a post-mortem on Ina Kapatid Anak.. I was tempted to write one. But then, after I learned that there was a MIEGO bodega chenes scene na naman pala despite the fact that last airing day na nila bukas Friday, eh.. I realized that enough na ang finale farewell post ko. ;-) #TuldokanNaAngIKASabayMoveOn

And so, on to the next post.. 

After watching a recorded video of the The Buzz IKA finale mall show, some KimXi fan girls and one non-fan guy had an interesting discussion. And of course, the topic’s all about “Kim and Xian’s real score”. Here goes the interesting (long) convo (and some post-worthy parts).. ;-)

Fan Girl1: OMG, bakit ayaw pa nila umamin? (both kilig and slightly irita)

Fan Girl2: Kaloka ka, do you think aamin sila right in front of the Market2x crowd? And hindi basta2x ganyan nalang ang pag-amin na yan. Hindi proper na dyan gagawin sa IKA mall show. Nakakatawa naman. 

Fan Girl1: Kahit na.. (irita pa din ang lola) wala man lang ba kahit indirect na “yes, we are getting there” nung nag-ask si Charlene ng scale of 1-10? Pa-cute lang sagot ni Xian eh..

Fan Girl3 : (to FanGirl1) Napanood mo ba yung Martin Late at Nite interview ni Xian? When martin asked him paano siya ma-in love..Xian said that “what matters is ME and YOU.. whatever it is, basta ME and YOU lang..”. Of course, kasama daw ang family circle nila sa relationship.. pero bottomline is, hindi kasali ang outside world. In short, private talaga for Xian ang lovelife.

Non-fan Boy: Improper nga naman na dyan sila aamin sa Market2x interview na ‘yan.. It’s not called for na kasama sa IKA finale interview nila ang pag-amin.. Besides, after umamin si Gerald na sila na ni Maja, eh kelangan na din ba umamin sina Kim and Xian na sila na?! Medyo  hindi maganda ‘yun.. Magulo ang showbiz.. Iba-bash lalo ng mga haters si Xian nyan.. Di ba sabi nyo before that palaging nali-label ng mga haters si Xian na pumu-promo lang sa loveteam nila ni Kim?

Fan Girl2: Yah, you’re right. Lahat ata ng gestures ni Xian kay Kim eh sinasabi ng mga haters na promo lang. Kahit yung mga sightings nila Kim and Xian outside of work na kasama family ni Kim eh ayaw talaga paniwalaan ng mga haters na real.. promo pa din daw.. Kaloka. Eh, Kim and Xian naman are open to the public na they are going out together.. Sinabi din yan ng mga siblings ni Kim sa Martin Late at Nite.

Fan Girl3: Korek. Open to the public naman that close si Xian sa family ni Kim. And yun ang hindi ma-gets or ayaw ata i-gets ng mga haters..

Fan Girl1:  Open nga sila that they are going out together, so bakit hindi straight to the point na sabihin nila na, “our relationship is already getting deeper”, “there’s chance na magiging kami”.. yung mga ganyang statements.. kesa naman puro iwas lang mga sagot nila..

Fan Girl2: There’s a right time for the pag-amin noh. And yung The Buzz interview last Sunday, eh hindi talaga yun ang right venue and right time para umamin sila. Not because wala naman silang dapat aminin, pero dahil hindi talaga proper na umamin sila ng ganun.. Ka-cheapan nga naman, mall show aamin sila?!? Eh di parang circus na talaga and “pang-entertainment purposes” ang lovelife nila.. I guess ayaw nila ng ganun. Dapat pang-private life talaga yung personal relationship nila.

Fan Girl3: Respeto na din kina Kim and Xian, right? Dapat nga din naman may privacy sila kahit papaano.. They are spotted going out together by non-fans and nalalaman nalang ng mga KimXis ang sightings kase may mga nagti-tweet.. Mostly, non-fans yung mga nakakakita sa kanila eh.. So, that shows na they are really spending time together outside of work.. ano pa bang mas real dun? And I think, bobo nalang talaga ang hindi makaka-gets sa real score nila Kim and Xian. Yung Bohol vacation nila, that speaks a lot huh. And yung mga Subic vacays nila. Not to mention Kim’s Valentine’s day spent with Xian. Imagine, if may ibang boyfriend si Kim, eh dadalhin ba nya si Xian sa Bohol?? Or mag-i-spend ba siya ng Valentine’s with Xian?? Eh open kaya sa public na nanliligaw si Xian sa kanya.. Hay naku, no need na nga talaga for Kim and Xian to explicitly tell the public ano meron sila. And fans should not demand din..

Fan Girl2: Yung mahirap lang ata kase sa situation nila is, loveteam sila.. Anong analysis mo about this? <to non-fan boy>

Non-fan Boy: Eh sabi nyo that they are openly going out together naman.. pero people or haters still label it as “promo” pa din. Siguro dahil yun nga loveteam sila.. may mga nagda-doubt sa personal relationship nila. Pero sabihin natin, along the way, while working together, eh nag-bloom ang friendship nila.. Mas naging close sila which is hindi naman imposible. Then nanligaw na nga si Xian.. and let’s just assume na sinagot na nga ni Kim si Xian.. Pero dahil sa loveteam sila, and the loveteam aspect is work yun for both of them, eh kelangan talaga nila i-separate ang relationship nila as boyfriend-girlfriend from the limelight.. Yung needed lang naman nila ipakita sa public, like sa inyo KimXi fans, eh yung loveteam nila.. yung sweetness nila oncam.. That is their main responsibility sa public dahil “work” yung loveteam nila eh.. Pero yung personal relationship nila, eh hindi nga naman nila kelangan na i-broadcast yun sa public.. Bonus na sa inyo guys yung mga sightings nila offcam na nababasa niyo sa Twitter.. hahaha. They don’t intend to share sa public yung offcam sightings nila.. Pero lumalabas pa din sila and nakikita sila ng public kase normal persons din naman sila.. nagdi-date din sila.. di ba?

Fan Girl1: Ako, I feel din naman na sila na.. Pero yun nga, it won’t hurt naman na umamin sila eh.. Masama bang umamin? Para matigil na din kase yung mga hopias dyan sa tabi2x na pilit nili-link si Kim with other guys.  

Fan Girl3: Eh care ba nila sa mga sinasabi ng iba dyan? For sure, insignificant sa lives ni Kim and Xian ang mga sinasabi ng mga hopias  na ‘yan. Hindi kasali actually ang fans and general public sa personal relationship nila. Spectators lang tayo actually. And one thing, kahit na umamin si Kim and Xian, meron pa din mga hopias na hindi maniniwala for sure. Sabihin pa din ng iba na “lies” and “promo” lang. Damn if you do, damn if you don’t talaga. Kaya tama lang, huwag nalang muna sila umamin.

Fan Girl2: Better pa nga umamin sila if may solo projects na sila.. Dyan mo din naman kase makikita ang real score talaga eh.. If solo projects na sila and they are still going out together, eh laslas na talaga ang mga hopias nyan!

Non-fan Boy: Do you guys think they will still go out together if may solo projects na sila?

Fan Girl1: Ako, feel ko, o’o they will still go out together.. Eh may promise ring na kaya.. Hehe.. And sabi nga, kapag nagbigay ang guy ng jewelries like earrings and ring sa girl for her birthday, eh hindi lang ordinary friendship ‘yan.. Pang boyfriend level na ang pag-reregalo ng earrings and ring eh..

Non-fan Boy: Ah may promise ring pala? Hmmm.. Iba na nga yan.. Kase ako, I won’t give earrings and ring as birthday gifts sa girl kahit na bestfriend ko pa ‘yan kase intimate gifts na ‘yan eh.. Lalo na promise ring.. Pang girlfriend lang yan eh.. Eh baka nga sila na talaga.. I-respeto niyo nalang mga fans ang privacy nila..

Fan Girl3: Exactly. Fans should not demand na umamin sina Kim and Xian. Hindi pa siguro talaga right time now na umamin sila and the public should not demand also a pag-amin from them.

Fan Girl1: Hmmm.. what if nga pala malalaman nalang ng public if hiwalay na sila??

Fan Girl3: Do you really think that their relationship will end sa paghihiwalay? We know, super common ito sa showbiz.. Couples split up and dun nalang nalalaman na sila pala. Pero, benefit of the doubt nalang kina Kim and Xian. Who knows iba yung sa kanila, di ba? And by the looks of it, attached na masyado si Xian sa family ni Kim eh..

Non-fan Boy: Ah, so sobrang close talaga si Xian sa family ni Kim?? Wow, eh mukhang pang long-haul relationship na ata meron sila.. Suwerte niyo guys if yung favourite loveteam niyo eh talagang mauuwi sa kasalan… For sure, they will reveal what they have in due time..

Fan Girl2: Yah.. siguro nga.. they’ll reveal if they want to. Until then, let’s just enjoy nalang their shows, their projects… and even the offcam news na nakakarating sa atin courtesy of public sightings. At least we know that they are really going out together and enjoying each other’s company for real.

<End of “what’s the real score” convo>

Can you guys relate to any of the characters here? This long conversation may or may not be a work of fiction. It may or may not necessarily reflect as well the thoughts and opinions of the fans and non-fans that are keen and eager to know the “real score” between Kim and Xian.

But if at some point you found yourself agreeing to the thoughts expressed by the Fan Girls and the Non-fan Boy, then I guess you’d agree with me as well that perhaps the magic word to Kim and Xian’s “real score” is --- PRIVACY.  ;-) #EnoughSaid


Quotes to ponder on: 

“Truth should not be forced; it should simply manifest itself, like a woman who has in her privacy reflected and coolly decided to bestow herself upon a certain man.” – John Updike

“I need privacy. I would think that because what I do makes a lot of people happy that I might deserve a little bit of respect in return. Instead, the papers try to drag me off my pedestal." - Jim Carrey

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