A Friendly Open Letter to the Haters/Bashers of Kim’s Other Half :-)

This piece is addressed to all juvenile and those slightly mashondang fans who are proliferating in Twitter-landia, na impressive sa pagiging consistent fan girl basher-hater targeting the other half of the KimXi couple. Da who ang mga itey? Profile-wise, let’s zero in on these two “groups”:

Group A) Some of them belong to Kim’s former LT (sadly) – do they know what “move on” means??
Group B) A few hopias who want to pair Kim with some non-actor – could they be the best definition of “disillusionment”??

And by other half of the KimXi couple, eh sino pa ang favourite target of these groups? Siyempre, si Xian. They hate him to the point that they even tag him sa Twitter just to insult him. Kalurky. Nakalimutan nila ang GMRC. Anyway, to those who’d have violent reactions or would choose to disagree with me, you are most welcome to comment. After all, this is a friendly open letter. ;-)

And so dahlings, how’s life? Life outside of Twitter? Life outside of being a consistent fan girl basher-hater? Relax relax and aura aura din kayo pag may time. Huwag masyado i-career ang pagiging fan girl basher-hater. Hindi ka yayaman and aasenso dyan. And your obsession with scrutinizing Kim’s lovelife and hating her current partner?? Geez, do some reality check and make sure you’re not bordering on insanity na. Especially if hindi naman kayo close ni Kim or you don’t know Xian personally, huwag masyado i-push ang pagiging fan girl basher-hater.  Nakakaubos yan ng alindog. Sa kaka-abang mo sa Twitter ng mga perfect opportunities to bash Xian, eh sa sariling lovelife mo nga-nga ka tuloy. Ingat, baka masabihan ka nyan ni Margaux Marasigan ng “When karma naks”.

 And sa mga nagla-life begins at 40 na dyan but still stuck sa pagiging basher-hater ni Xian, mga tita, it’s time to pursue a new hobby na siguro like gardening, crocheting, baking, cross-stitching.. Kapag nalaman ng anak and asawa mo that you’re spending a good amount of your time on Twitter insulting Xian Lim na hindi ka naman kilala… I. JUST. CANT. Kakaloka ka. (And I could hear someone now saying, “Pakialam mo? Buhay ko ‘to.”) Sorry naman po, friendly reminder lang. Hahaha hahaha.

Dearies, actually, too much bashing/hating is really BAD. Let me tell you why..

1. BAD Mentally  

1.1 Nakakabobo - Yes, nakaka-decrease ng IQ levels ito. One good example is, you’ve seen and heard Kim already being interviewed on national TV and she’s saying to everyone that mag-MOVE ON na. But for some reason, eh hindi na ata napa-process ng brain cells mo ang salitang MOVE ON. Two words lang yan ha.. and you’re having difficulty digesting it. Kalurky. Si Kim 10,000 miles na ang pag move on. But you?? Hahaha hahaha. And because of this, you still live in dreamland and acquire a bad case of 1.2 (Please see below)

1.2 Hallucination – Ibang levels ka. You and your cohorts. You always (and forever na ba?) have your own version of “the truth”. You tend to associate random happenings in Kim’s life right now with “the truth”. Yung mga tipong kahit si Xian ang kasama ni Kim, all you see is the sickening “truth” and you refuse to acknowledge Xian as part of Kim's here and now. Kim’s reality right now is NOT your reality. That’s for sure. Iba kase ang nakikita, nasi-sense and nalalaman mo. Daig mo pa ang FBI sa dami ng “hidden proofs” kuno na alam mo. Kasama ka ba sa Chiu household and family circle?? Nakakaloka ka. Daig mo pa ang naka-drugs, actually.

2. BAD Emotionally

Dear Heartache – Thanks to “When karma naks”, each and every bash and hate you send Xian’s way, ang kapalit naman ay countless moments of Xian and Kim being seen going out together, vacationing together, spending time with Kim’s family.. Haven’t you noticed this? Iba talaga when the universe conspires.. pinagpala ang mga bina-bash. ;-) And aminin mo, kahit nasa state of hallucination ka, the news of Kim and Xian spending time together ay isang “cuts like a knife.. I’m so deeply wounded” eksena for you. Hayyyy, masakit, right? Huwag kase paka-involved masyado sa lovelife ng idol niyo. ‘Yan ang napapala tuloy. Hahaha hahaha.

I could just imagine Xian reading all those tweets of him being tagged and binabastos siya. Good thing he could just be cool about it. But, as a person, masakit din of course for him. And sadly, a good percentage of his bashers belong to Groups A and B above. One common denominator is, mga fans din sila ni Kim. Kim, his other half..

Kase naman, as fans you should be aware of your limits din. It’s not good to live in a world of “pure imagination” and be detached from reality. :-) Reality check, eyes wide-open, look at how Kim’s bursting with happiness right now in her life and it’s plain and clear who she is going out with. And please, don’t limit your vocabulary to the word “Promo”. I-overcome ang pag-decrease ng IQ levels. There are other words pa naman like “love” “friendship” “best friend” “what you see is what you get”. And most importantly, learn by heart these two life-changing words: Move On.

Bless us all. ;-)